Know what to expect! Year 12-18
Pediatric Anticipatory Guidance
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Growth
- Teens want independence.
- Help them make good choices with friends and activities.
- Encourage their interests in school, sports, and hobbies.
- Talk with them about what they want to do after high school.
Shots
- Teens need 2 meningitis shots at 16 years.
- Teens need flu and COVID vaccines in the fall.
Food
- Limit junk food and fast food.
- Offer fruits, vegetables, beans, nuts, seeds, and whole grains.
- Try for 5 vegetables or fruits every day.
- Give foods that taste and feel different. It may take 12 tries before a teen likes a new food.
Keep offering healthy foods! - Let teens eat when they’re hungry and stop when they’re not hungry.
- Offer mainly water to drink.
- Teens should have 2-3 servings of calcium-rich milk or food every day.
- Limit juice, soda, and other sweet drinks.
Teeth
- Brush teeth twice a day.
- Use fluoride toothpaste.
- See the dentist every 6 months.
Exercise
- Have a sports physical before starting.
- Exercise at least 1 hour every day. Do something fun!
- Wear a helmet and pads for biking, skateboarding, scootering, horseback riding, or skiing.
- Teens might need safety glasses and mouth guards too.
Screens
- Limit screen time (phones, tablets, computers) to less than 2 hours a day.
- Don’t use screens as background noise or to keep teens busy.
- Keep screens out of bedrooms. Turn all screens off 1-2 hours before bed.
- Go to www.healthychildren.org to make a plan for your family.
- Talk with your teen about being safe online.
- Talk about not friending strangers online, not sending private pictures, and reporting
anything bad that was sent to them. - The websites www.sos.fbi.gov and www.netsmartzkids.org are helpful.
- Report concerns to:
• Local police
• NCMEC CyberTipline at https://report.cybertip.org/ or 1-800-843-5678
• FBI at https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices, https://tips.fbi.gov/ or 1-800-CALL-FBI.
Sleep
- Keep the bedroom cool, dark, and quiet.
- Have a regular, ½ hour, bedtime routine.
- Keep bedtimes and wakeup times the same every day.
- Use sunlight to help wake up in the morning.
- Keep a regular schedule of meals, exercise, snacks, and sleep every day.
Help
- If you need help, go to findhelp.org.
You can get help with food, housing, medicine, and other things.
Seat belts
- Make sure your teen always wears a seat belt.
- Never drive or ride with alcohol or drugs.
- Give your teen a phone number to call for a safe ride.
Poisons
- Keep vitamins, medicines, cleaners, and other dangerous stuff locked away.
- Keep the Poison Control Center number (1-800-222-1222) handy.
Tobacco
- Do not use or be around tobacco, e-cigarettes, vapes, Juuls, or other smoke.
- Call 1-800-NO-BUTTS and visit nobutts.org for free help.
Safety
- Set the home water temperature to 120F or less to prevent burns.
- Watch teens closely when they swim.
- Fence swimming pools on all sides.
- Check smoke detectors twice a year and replace batteries.
- Keep volumes low, especially in ear buds. Limit the time in noisy areas.
Sun
- Protect your teen from the sun with long sleeves and long pants.
- Put on sunglasses and a hat.
- Re-apply sunscreen every 2 hours. If swimming or sweating, re-apply every 1 hour.
- Limit time in the sun between 10am and 4pm.
School
- Being at school every day is important.
- Talk with the doctor if:
- Your teen has more than 2 sick days a month
- Your teen needs to take medicine at school
- Your teen has trouble paying attention or sitting still
- Talk with the school if:
- It’s hard for your teen to learn
- Your teen needs a special plan to learn
Sun
- Protect your teen from the sun with long sleeves and long pants.
- Put on sunglasses and a hat.
- Re-apply sunscreen every 2 hours. If swimming or sweating, re-apply every 1 hour.
- Limit time in the sun between 10am and 4pm.
Bullying
- Report bullying—online or in person—to a teacher, counselor, principal, or coach.
- Go to stopbullying.gov for more help.
Mental Health
- Good apps for mental health are Calm, Headspace, Mindshift, Smiling Mind, and Panic Relief.
- For mental health crises, call or text 988 for help.
- For thoughts of hurting self or others, call 911 or go to the ER.
Firearms
- Firearms at home should be unloaded and locked.
- Ammunition should be locked separately.
- If anyone at home has depression or mental illness, keep firearms at a different location.